WHAT YOU GET IS NOT WAHT YOU SEE.
*January 31–February 6
What You Get Is Not What You See
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There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way
of death (Proverbs
As Paul had said:
We see through a glass,
darkly (1 Cor.
13:12). We see so little, and what we do see always comes
filtered through our own minds. Our eyes and ears — all our senses,
actually — give us only a narrow view of what’s really out there.
We can be deceived, too, not only about the external world, but
about ourselves as well. Our dreams, our views, and our opinions can
give us very distorted images of what we are really like, and of all
deceptions, that can be by far the worst.
What should we do then, to protect ourselves from these
deceptions? Proverbs provides us with basic counsel. We should not
trust ourselves, as the fool does. On the contrary, we should trust
the Lord, who controls the course of events even when all seems to
go wrong. In short, we need to live by faith and not merely by
sight, because our sight can be exceedingly deceptive, showing only
a small portion of what is real, and then even worse, distorting the
little it does show us.
week’s lesson to prepare for Sabbath, February 7.
The Assurance of the Fool
Proverbs 14:1-35. What does it say about the fool?
The fool speaks proudly (Prov.
14:3). The first depiction of the fool deals with his
proud speech. The image of the rod associated with the fool’s
lips implies his eventual punishment. His proud words have resulted
in a blow on his lips, an outcome that is seen in contrast with the
lips of the wise, which are preserved (see also
The fool mocks wisdom (Prov.
14:6–9). Although the fool seems to seek wisdom, in fact he
does not believe in it and is skeptical of it. He will not find it
because, in his own mind, there is no wisdom apart from himself.
Most frightful is his attitude toward violation of the law. What
could be more deadly than mocking the idea of sin?
The fool is credulous (Prov.
14:15). Paradoxically, while the fool makes fun of those
idealists who still believe in the values of wisdom, he has lost his
ability to think critically about what he hears; he believes
every word. The irony of this situation strikes at the heart of
secular society. Skeptical people mock God and make fun of religion,
claiming that these beliefs are for children and old people, yet
they themselves often believe in some of the most foolish things,
such as the creation of life on earth by pure chance alone.
The fool is impulsive (Prov.
29). Because the fool believes that he has the truth within
himself, he does not take time to think. His reaction will be quick,
dictated mostly by impulse.
The fool oppresses others (Prov.
31). The mechanisms of oppression and intolerance are
suggested in the psychology of the fool. He is intolerant of others
and will treat them with contempt (see
It’s easy to see the traits of a fool in
others, but what about in our own selves? Which, if any, of these
character flaws might you need first to recognize, and then seek by
God’s grace to overcome?
The Fear of the Wise
Proverbs 14:1-35 again. What does it say about the wise?
The wise speak humbly (Prov.
14:3). The wise restrain the use of their lips. Their silent
reflection is motivated by a lack of arrogant self-assurance. The
wise give consideration to the other person’s ideas; therefore, the
wise will take time to think through and weigh the evidence. They
are also silent because they are listening, ready to learn from
The wise value learning and knowledge (Prov.
18). It is difficult for the fool to learn, because it is
hard for him to sit at the feet of a teacher; in contrast, it is
easy for the wise to learn because of their humility. They will thus
enjoy the experience of learning and growing. It is also this search
for wisdom, for knowledge that they do not have, which makes them
The wise are cautious (Prov.
14:15). The wise know that sin and evil exist. Therefore
they will be careful where they walk. They will not trust their
feelings and personal opinions; they will check things out and ask
for advice. Yet they will always be careful about what other people
say to them; they will sort out the good from the bad
The wise are calm (Prov.
33). The wise can stay quiet because they do not rely on
own ways, but depend on
14:14, NKJV). It is their faith in God that allows them
to relax and exercise self-control (Isa.
30:15). It is the fear of God that gives them confidence
The wise are compassionate and sensitive (Prov.
31). The two commandments,
You shall love the LORD your
You shall love your neighbor, are linked
12:30-31, NKJV). We can’t love God and at the same time
treat other people poorly. The greatest expression of our faith is
how we deal with others, especially those in need.
We do not realize how many of us walk by
sight and not by faith. We believe the things that are seen, but do
not appreciate the precious promises given us in His Word. —
Ellen G. White,
Our High Calling, p. 85. What does it
mean to walk by faith and not by sight? How are we supposed to do
The Eyes of the LORD
The eyes of the LORD are in every
place, keeping watch on the evil and the good
15:3, NKJV). How does this text make you feel, and why?
In the next two chapters in Proverbs the tone changes. These
chapters are more theological than the preceding ones. The Lord is
referenced more often than in previous proverbs. We are also told
something amazing about Him: that His eyes are in every place
This acute consciousness of the Lord’s presence is precisely what
the ancient Israelites called
the fear of the LORD. The same
association is found in the Psalms:
the eye of the LORD is on
those who fear Him (Ps.
33:18, NKJV). Likewise, Job describes God as the One who
looks to the ends of the earth and sees all that happens under the
28:24). Because of this, Job concludes that
of the LORD . . . is wisdom (Job
This proverb reminds us of God’s ability to see good and evil, no
matter where they are. As Solomon understood (1 Kings
3:9), true wisdom is the ability to discern between good
and evil. On a human level, this awareness should help us remember
always to do good and never evil, for God sees all that we do, even
if no one else does. We fool ourselves, thinking that because, for
now, we get away with evil, that we really do get away with
it. In the long run we never do.
Let us, therefore, be diligent for
there is no creature hidden
from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him
to whom we must give account (Heb.
Isaiah 5:20, and
Hebrews 5:14. What crucial message do these verses have for us,
especially in an age when the very concepts of
good and evil
are often blurred, with people claiming that good and evil are
relative or just human ideas that have no objective existence apart
from what we say they are? What is so wrong with such a notion of
good and evil, and why is it so dangerous to hold?
The Joy of the Lord
Proverbs 15:1-33. Why is joy such an important human asset?
Scripture does not promise us a life without trials. As Jesus
Sufficient for the day is its own trouble
Proverbs 15:15 explains that amid evil days, the one who
maintains a merry heart will have a better time of it. Pain,
suffering, and trials will come, and often we can’t control when and
how. What we can control, at least to some degree, is how we choose
23. What is God’s part in this joy?
Although the biblical text does not explicitly mention the reason
for joy, the parallel thought between
Proverbs 15:13-14 suggests that the
merry heart is
heart of him who has understanding (NKJV).
It is the heart of the one who has faith and sees redemption beyond
the immediate ordeal. This is why faith in God is so important; this
is why it’s so crucial that we know for ourselves, from our own
experience, the reality of God and His love. Then, whatever trials
come, whatever suffering we face, those with understanding can
endure, because they know for themselves God’s love.
Proverbs 15:23 brings us another important idea. Joy comes more
from what we give than from what we receive. It is the good word
shared with others that will bring joy to the giver. Who hasn’t
experienced the blessings that come from blessing others, whether in
word or in deed or both? As we have already seen in Proverbs, our
words are powerful. They can do great good or great evil. And how
much better it is when they do great good, not only for the one whom
the good is done, but for the one who does it.
How well do you know, for yourself, God’s
love? What are things you could do that could help open up your
heart to this crucial truth? Consider how much better life would be
if you knew the reality of God’s love.
The Sovereignty of God
We all dream and make plans, and yet things turn out differently,
sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. The Bible
acknowledges the value of human responsibility and freedom. Yet the
Bible also affirms God’s control over the course of events
Proverbs 16:1 say? How are we to understand this text?
We prepare and make plans, but the last word still belongs to
God. This does not mean that our preparations are worthless. But in
the life of faith, if we just submit our plans to God, He will work
with them, and our plans will be directed (Prov.
16:9) and ultimately established by Him
16:3). Even the work of our enemies will be used in our
Though these are not simple ideas to grasp, especially when we
face difficult situations, they should give us comfort and help us
learn to trust God, even when things seem to go terribly wrong, and
when our plans don’t turn out as we had hoped. The key point for us
is to learn to surrender all to God; if we do that, we can be sure
of His guidance, even in the hardest times.
Proverbs 16:18-19. What is the place of ambition in human
As always, the Bible warns against pride. After all, as fallen
beings, what do we have to be proud of? What vice is more contrary
to God than pride, the original sin? (See
Ezek. 28:17.) Jesus emphatically taught about the
iniquity of seeking to be great, and He urged His disciples to seek
humility instead (Matt.
Proverbs 16:33. What is the place of chance in human success?
The Bible does not make room for chance. For even when one thinks
that the course of events is dictated by chance, we can trust that
God is still in control.
As we seek to understand why things happen,
how does the reality of the great controversy help us work through
some difficult issues regarding why things happen as they do?
From the beginning Satan has portrayed to men the gains to be won
by transgression. Thus he seduced angels. Thus he tempted Adam and
Eve to sin. And thus he is still leading multitudes away from
obedience to God. The path of transgression is made to appear
desirable; but the end thereof are the ways of death.
Proverbs 14:12. Happy [are] they who, having ventured in this
way, learn how bitter are the fruits of sin, and turn from it
betimes. — Ellen G. White,
Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 720.
Nothing tends more to promote health of body and of soul than
does a spirit of gratitude and praise. It is a positive duty to
resist melancholy, discontented thoughts and feelings — as much a
duty as it is to pray. If we are heaven-bound, how can we go as a
band of mourners, groaning and complaining all along the way to our
Father’s house? Those professed Christians who are constantly
complaining, and who seem to think cheerfulness and happiness a sin,
have not genuine religion. — Ellen G. White,
The Ministry of Healing, p. 251.
- Discuss the idea that we have only a limited view of
reality. What does this mean? What things are out there that
we know are real, yet we just can’t sense them, in any way?
For instance, how many radio waves (cell phone calls,
satellite programs, radio programs) are in the air all
around you right now, and yet you can’t see, hear, or feel
them at all? How should the existence of such realities help
us understand how limited our senses are? How should this
understanding help us realize the reality of other things
that we can’t see, such as angels?
- Why is it important to understand the reality of human
free will and free choice, even if God is ultimately in
control? Though these concepts (human free choice, God’s
sovereignty) seem to be in contradiction, both are taught in
the Bible, so how can we reconcile them?
NAD: West Virginia
“They Deserve A Chance, Too”
When Paul and Christie Brown moved into a less than desirable
neighborhood in Elkins, West Virginia, they didn’t know that their
home would become a magnet for young people.
I’ve always been youth focused, says Paul,
so when the
neighborhood kids wanted to hang out with our kids at the house, we
said, OK, but there are rules:
- Respect. You will treat yourself and others respectfully,
with no swearing and no name calling.
- No lying. You lie to me, and it’s done–you are out the door.
- Health/Dietary issues–no drugs, no alcohol, no unclean meat.
Once the young people understood about clean and unclean foods,
they tried sharing what they had learned with their families.
grandfather would be cooking a groundhog, says Paul,
kids would tell him, No! We’re not going to eat that!
Before long, the visitors were asking to move in with the Browns.
spends every weekend at our house, says Paul.
Sabbath retreat, and gets him away from his house. During the
week Brayden tries to avoid his abusive alcoholic step-father as
much as possible.
Hunter and Wyatt are two others who spend more time with the
Browns than at home. Both coming from difficult situations, the boys
feel safe with Paul and Cindy, whom they consider to be their
I try to treat all the kids as if they’re my kids, says
because they deserve a chance, too. That includes
providing clothing, bicycles, and various other items.
vehicle I drive–an extended cab truck–is based on how many kids
we’re looking after, so we can take them to and from school.
With parental permission, the Browns have taken Brayden and
Hunter with them to Pathfinders and to church, and are even paying
for them to attend the local Adventist church school. Unfortunately,
Wyatt’s mother will not give permission for him to join in these
activities, but for Brayden and Hunter, their experience has been
life changing. On November 2, 2013, both boys, along with the
Browns’ son, Payton, were baptized at the Elkins Seventh-day
We’ve been living here for three years now, Paul says,
and my wife really feels that the Lord put us in this neighborhood.
It’s not where we would have chosen, but we are sure that the Lord
led us here.